#10 - My freshman football coach in high school informed me that I could not stand "that way" and be on his team.
#9 - Not having a real interest in dating girls.
#8 - Not kissing a girl until I was 18-19.
#7 - Tom of Findland - finding Tom of Findland fascinating.
#6 - A fascination with a gay professor in grad school. I still know where he is unlike any others.
#5 - L - rubbing leg against mine in school. I hoped she was doing it by accident. I didn't pursue.
#4 - K - dancing with K. She let it be known she wanted sex. I deferred.
#3 - Turning down a threesome. No, not with another guy. A girlfriend who was trying to lure me in called and said she was over a friend's house and that they wanted me to come over to play. I said no - the 20 minute drive didn't seem worth it. (To be honest the girlfriend was a case.)
#2 - Walking across the street with a friend when I was 20. He says, "Did you see those cute girls checking us out." I say, "Huh, what where?" I never did see them. More importantly, I wasn't disappointed I didn't see them.
DRUM ROLL PLEASE
#1 David - not Letterman, but the boy next door. David, may he rest in peace, died of a unnamed illness. His parents would never say what it was; my mum still sees them on occassion. His name isn't on the AIDS quilt; I've looked.