Friday, August 16, 2013
The End - The Doors
It's interesting how much of this journey I've related to music over the years.
In therapy today I talked about getting a couple's therapist. My object, my chief object, my only real object for doing that is to unwind slowly (but not too slowly), safely and respectfully from C. As she said the other day - our relationship has changed a lot in the past little bit - last few months.
As I said a while back before restarting therapy here, I was trepidatious about beginning thinking I knew that once I got on the road this is where the road would lead.
Well I have arrived - one arm swung high and the other on my hip.
Goals for the week:
Call the various therapists we spoke about in therapy today.
Determine which ones have significant LGBT experience - preferably experience with mixed orientation marriages.
Find out about their fee structures
Next Thursday talk with S (therapist) about what I've found out - ask how/if I should let this new therapist know my intention
Present C with 2-3 to chat with.