tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post2578764876784924625..comments2021-05-29T10:17:07.405-04:00Comments on What a long strange trip: Hamlet, Prince of DenmarkJimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15880303202553478598noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-36440054673313922882011-08-14T16:33:58.177-04:002011-08-14T16:33:58.177-04:00Jim
In my case I have told my wife I can not go ba...Jim<br />In my case I have told my wife I can not go back suppressing wanting and acting on seeing guys. She has slowly accepted this - saying she is trying to change her thinking. And it seems to be working. We are getting along better now than we have in a very long time - we really now understand each others needs. And I have more love for her too! I even went out this weekend to the beach with the guys with her knowledge and permission. So if your wife and you still have affection towards each other and want to maintain as close to 'normal' a family life together maybe she needs to be a little more flexible and let you go off the grid some - i.e. have it both ways. So how rigid is your wife and how hard have you tried to convince her to let you have these other relationships that would complete and enrich your life and really your marriage. It may not seem the best solution for either of you but it is the only compromise possible that would maintain normalcy for your kids. So some sort of openness with your wife, with some sort of rules might work. Giving it a try myself.<br />Take care<br />Tom from ClevelandTomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181157637808640690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-11279570532619321332011-08-12T07:49:16.097-04:002011-08-12T07:49:16.097-04:00Some really touch choices lie ahead, that's fo...Some really touch choices lie ahead, that's for sure. My wife, family and I have made such incredible progress by proceeding one step and a time; I would never have imagined it seven months ago.<br /><br />Best wish to you all!Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-10760036037548436842011-08-12T01:57:22.782-04:002011-08-12T01:57:22.782-04:00A thoughtful, even slightly upbeat post. This is...A thoughtful, even slightly upbeat post. This is good. Staying out of the mire is half the battle.TwoLiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801244463128618355noreply@blogger.com