tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post1282324341615771120..comments2021-05-29T10:17:07.405-04:00Comments on What a long strange trip: "Is it possible to come out of the closet late in life?"Jimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15880303202553478598noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-77952355955123803142011-06-24T20:11:13.018-04:002011-06-24T20:11:13.018-04:00Jim just found blog. It is reassuring reading of ...Jim just found blog. It is reassuring reading of other guys going through what I am and having similar feelings of relief when finally admitting it to themselves. Will keep reading of your progress. Tom from ClevelandTomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10181157637808640690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-24254718665540207662011-06-24T01:20:02.006-04:002011-06-24T01:20:02.006-04:00Buddy Bear Thanks! It is a journey and a process....Buddy Bear Thanks! It is a journey and a process. Right now I'm enjoying it.<br /><br />Steve - I here Trinidad is amazing. I relate to the job issue. It would be complicated to be out at mine.<br /><br />Mike - it's good to see that there is light on the other side of the tunnel. Right now I believe it's not a train ;-)Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15880303202553478598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-30568894373728646362011-06-23T00:11:54.588-04:002011-06-23T00:11:54.588-04:00Hi there - ironically I'm originally from Trin...Hi there - ironically I'm originally from Trinidad as well, but I currently live elsewhere! I'm not out and I find it difficult to be, especially with my job...one day I'll find courage!SteveAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13245382341947191311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-82735791130326851782011-06-22T21:01:18.623-04:002011-06-22T21:01:18.623-04:00You've come a very long way in your journey al...You've come a very long way in your journey already. Admitting to yourself that you are gay, discussing it with your wife and making connections with other gay guys are all huge steps forward.<br /><br />Your self-reflective post was just beautiful. There will be costs in coming out, for you and your family; financial, social and emotional. These will be far outweighed by the freedom and serenity which you will gain by living a truthful life.Buddy Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052407067718899985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831665849893948834.post-83232540698224539522011-06-22T18:20:21.552-04:002011-06-22T18:20:21.552-04:00Hi Have been where you are now and managed to get ...Hi Have been where you are now and managed to get through it, I to had a very understanding best friend in my wife, Although I secretly think she wanted us to carry on, I could not fight what was coming from within, Three years of therapy only to realise that I was the only one who could decide when and what I was to do. <br />Having never been with a man, wtf was I doing leaving the safety of my life to try something I had no idea about. Needless to say I did leave (the hardest thing I have ever done in my life) When I left i left everything, friends, family and posessions that was a guilt thing. It can be done not easy but worth it<br /><br />MikeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com